The Difference Familiarity Can Make
The following was written by Outreach Specialist Brittani Stidham from Downtown Oklahoma City (OKC). Only minor edits have been made for clarity.
While I have many stories to tell, one really has stuck out for our team here in Downtown OKC due to the teamwork and community believing in our work.
We had a known unhoused gentleman who did not want to utilize our resources, but our team continued to check on him daily and make sure he had somewhere warm to go.
He had refused to go to the night shelters, and it was below 25 around this time of year. Our Ambassadors had tried to provide him with blankets and clothing to assist him in staying warm at the least. Although he was very cold, he would not take our helping hand respectfully.
Brittani and Martin helped an unhoused resident get the care he needed.
The gentleman was so cold one night our team approached him and had to take him to the hospital. Our fantastic, kind-hearted Ambassador Lola was able to convince him to go. He stayed several days as he had frostbite on a couple of his toes. Afterward, we had not seen him for about a month with the assumption that he had found a warm place to go and had received assistance. I continued to check the area for him as it was still freezing temperatures.
He finally popped back up, not because our team had spotted him, but because a business across the street had called our Hotlines Team Lead Martin, who contacted me for assistance. The business and a few residents had already contacted police, but due to the response time, they had not made it to him yet. This is where the good old saying comes into play: “Green Team to the rescue.” We pride ourselves on being community heroes.
Martin and I responded within 10 minutes and went right into outreach and welfare check mode. The police arrived as well. Because the unhoused gentleman had a great trusting relationship with our team, he was very reluctant to receive help from the police. He was trying to put socks on and needed shoes. What no one noticed except for Martin and me was a familiar smell of infection and burnt-like skin. The man was trying to cover up the severe frostbite that covered his feet to his calves. He was also missing a small portion of his foot because of the infection from the frostbite.
The officers made several attempts to get him to go to the hospital as they had dispatched for Emergency Services. I stepped in with Ambassador Martin and we asked them to stop engaging with the man. While we knew they were trying to help him, we also knew him and that the interaction was triggering his mental health issues. We could tell he was not comfortable going with them. Using our outreach communication skills and being extremely mindful of his situation, Martin and I were finally able to convince him to go to the hospital. He only agreed because he trusted us. Once they were able to start treating him on-site, they disclosed to us that he was so severely frostbitten and the infection was so bad that they were shocked he was still alive and able to talk and attempt to even walk.
While this was happening, I was able to contact his worker because that very day, he was due for a housing intake that I had been working on. I was able to assist with getting him rescheduled. He did not know how to go about missing his appointment and was mainly reluctant to go to the hospital because he knew he had to get to his appointment for housing. He was not worried about his health. He simply wanted to get into his home for the first time in many years of experiencing being unhoused.
Unfortunately, upon checking on him at the hospital, he did not have family to be by his side. He had put me down as his emergency contact. The hospital told me he was in surgery, and he had to have his feet and calves amputated because of the severity of the frostbite and infection traveling through his body. He would not have made it another night in his state. The news was heart-wrenching, but we were just thankful we were able to convince him to go. We were extremely grateful to have assisted in getting him to the hospital, but even more so that he was in good hands, safe and out of the cold.
After a month of being in the hospital, he was still in need of getting into housing as he had missed his appointment for housing, and the facility was not willing to reschedule. Thankfully, I was able to get him into a shelter that specifically works with unhoused individuals experiencing disabilities or who have long-term disabilities. He was able to connect with his worker and transition to his new way of living in his wheelchair.
Our team still checks on him, and he often tells people about us. The police, residents in the area and businesses have gained an even more positive perspective of our team. We don’t often wear our crowns, capes or shields visibly, but as soon as we start our shifts…we are the superheroes! I love our Downtown OKC Green Team and our Downtown OKC Partnership.
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